Check Yourself

Uncle KJ gotta talk to ya'll kids

Listen up quick cause the way some ya'll live

Must have lost ya mind and just flipped ya lid

Now ladies I know what he be telling you

I know cause back in the day I used to do it too

Talking about aww girl you know I love you

And if love me too then let me sleep wiht you ooh

He's a fool a lying scheming dude

I'm a tell ya straight girl now cut him loose

Why ain't no guy that cute

If he won't respect for you and won't wait for you

See you need a real man that loves God too

And will take a stand even if it's hard to

And I know that you can now it's worth it for you

Check the program this is what i'm telling you

ooohh ya'll better check yo self, nah ya'll need to check yo self

un uh ya better check yo self, no ya'll better just respect yo self

Where my fellas at where my fellas at?

Now some of ya'll need to check where ya head is at

I know in the locker room what they be talling cats

Don't buy into that now when they selling that

Virgin ain't a dirty word don't be ashamed of that

See in reality people be respecting that

Stand up for yourself tell em just chill with that

And even if they diss turn around and bless em back

Let em talk smack and leave it at that

Cause everybody ain't doin it now just learn that facts

Don't never let somebody ever hold ya back

Nobody except God should ever tell ya how to act

It's God saying that cause peeps won't tell ya that

But it's the truth and I'll never back down from that

So if ya can ya handle that and like the sound of that

Then people halla back on the track if ya down with that

Chorus

Ladies and gentlemen ya need to stop playing

Stop running around always missionary dating

You think that the one you're loving you gonna be saving

But end up with problems from the choice ya making

Now some ya'll girls ya'll need to start caring

And think twice about all these clothes that ya wearing

I know it might be nice to have all the guys staring

But take advice respect yourself as a woman

We all want love and we all want attention

But that ain't the way to get it you understand what I'm saying?

With the baby gap outfit on that ya wearing

Sneaking out the house trying to hide from ya parents

See God said save yourself for ya marriage

And it was for a reason don't misunderstand it

Sex is a beautiful gift don't mishandle it

Ya better check yourself and don't damage it